Teenager With Older Man?

Question by : teenager with older man?
I don’t want to be judged, because it’s not me with this problem.

My friend is having a sexual relationship with an older man. They do not love each other. they are both only in it for the sex.

I have read things like how this can ruin a girl’s life. Even if she’s not really in love with him?

I guess you could debate whether he is using her for sex, which I think he is. But that is not the issue.

What I am looking for is girls/women who HAVE been in this situation and what the outcome was. Did it ruin your life? Are you just fine now? Do you have healthy relationships now that you are older? Are you still attracted to older men? How did it affect you/your friends/family?

“That’s sick/gross/nasty” Answers aren’t answers in my opinion. If you don’t know what you’re talking about and/or have no real information to give, don’t answer.

Best answer:

Answer by sagin123
I dont think it is a problem, if its all fun then it shouldnt be 🙂

Answer by Chey
A friend of mine had sex with an older man, then they ended up being together about a year or two later and still are together to this day (which makes it like 3-4 yrs now) But other girls arn’t so lucky. Just depends on how strong your friend is Sweetie.

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