Nobody Is Answering! Want an Honest Answer! Do I Have a Chance With Him?? What to Do?

Question by }•{ Z Phairy Princess }•{: Nobody is answering! Want an honest answer! Do I have a chance with him?? What to do?
We briefly met, but didnt talk… It was at a small party (not really a party, just like 7 people chilling out). We made eye contact a few times. Once, he looked up at me and our eyes just connected for like 5 seconds until I looked away. It was so intense, I can’t describe it. The rest of the night, if our eyes crossed, he quickly looked away.

I asked my friend what was up and if she talked to me, which she had, and said:

He says he feels two old for you. Like if you guys ever started talking he would move faster and doesn’t think that he’s good enough.

So now what? I have never had such a strong initial feeling about someone before.

Btw, I’m 18, he’s 20. I live a pretty good, clean life. I’ve got almost a 4.0, have been told I’m gorgeous by many guys, have only dated one guy, and am really unique/different (I’ve been told). He isn’t the smartest academically, smokes, has done drugs and lives a poorer life.

Best answer:

Answer by aniruddha
You deserve better than him.

Answer by Katy
um i recommend you dont even go after him. you could have a chance with him, but then you’d be degrading yourself. seriously, if a guy did drugs and smokes that’s not exactly a great guy. plus, you broke the flirting thing so no. if you hadn’t looked away then maybe a yes. see, when you get eye contact like that, quickly look away and then slowly turn to face him again and give him a smile. (shocks them so much and they love it!)